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Monday, September 10

Case of the Blogging Blues

I might seem like a real party pooper admitting this, but this is my blog and my life and I want to be truly honest. Lately, I think I have what can only be described as the Blogging Blues. I go back and forth with saying something out loud, blogging about it, or just keeping it inside and hoping it passes... but the feeling is still lingering around.

 When I started this blog, I was living in my hometown, boyfriend had a busy job and (an even busier time) commuting almost two hours each way and I was working a boring job I had been at for years and years. Fast forward to now, I live in a place I love to be out and about in, boyfriend has more time to spend at home with us because work is literally one exit away on the freeway and I have ZERO free time. I don't know if you know, but I currently still work that job in my hometown two days a week, and I work at Anthropologie the other five. And I love being at Anthro. I work long hours, enjoy all of the wonderful girls who work there, and I get a lot of inspiration there that was lacking in my life before. 

Which brings me to lately. Some days I am too tired to open that laptop. It sits on the couch taunting me. I know there are emails and tweets and blogs to read but sometimes it feels a little overwhelming. So I don't open it. I pretend it isn't there some days. Then other days I do it all. I knock it all out. I read that Google Reader down until my eyes cross! I miss commenting on blogs because I don't have the time. I feel like I throw up posts for the sake of "posting" that I don't have time to fine tune and it makes me crazy.

I think to myself sometimes... How do you stop blogging? It feels like a relationship and sometimes I wonder if I would ever have to "dump" my blog. Do you just go cold turkey and stop? Do you slowly fade away? Do I even want that?

Please tell me some of you blogging ladies have had these thoughts before...
What did/do you do?

I have thought long and hard, and I think I have an answer. My reason to blog (and why I love it so much) hasn't changed. I love being able to inspire and feel inspired by you guys. I love connecting through all of the various social media outlets with such nice and amazing ladies, it boggles my mind that there are over 1000 of you who care what I have to say sometimes. Truly amazing...

This blog is changing. I am starting with a new layout. It is kind of like painting a wall or cleaning a closet. We need something fresh and new, and something simple. I am getting rid of a lot of the fluff and sticking to the important stuff. Moe from Five Sixteenths Blog is working on an amazing new layout I cant wait to share with you guys. I am going to write more. I don't always want to talk about my clothes, I want to talk about what is on my mind. And I want to share even better outfits with you. I have really lost the time to photograph those, so I need to find it! And most importantly is my change to Sponsors. Bigger and better ads and guess what? You will be more like Partners in this blog not paid Sponsors. If you want to buy an ad and call it a day, you can. Wanna trade? Shoot me an email with your ideas. Wanna see your Etsy piece worn on my blog... lets do it! I don't want to run this blog like a business, because it isn't. It is an outlet to share things I love and support and I don't want the serious to get in the way of the amazingness. Plus, I don't want to feel like I am letting others down if I don't post for a day or two.

So there you have it. Hopefully, my cure to the blogging blues. I think it will make the blog even better then before and I finally feel excited and refreshed again! 

23 comments:

  1. I think that this sounds like the perfect way to clean house. I'm excited for you to find your passion for blogging again!

    but yes, I totally understand the laptop taunting you. it can all just get to be too much sometimes.

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    1. It can! But I am working on simplifying and doing more of what makes me happy, which I am sure wont feel so like so much of a chore sometimes!

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  2. I just started blogging so I haven't quite gotten to this point yet but I definAtely see how you feel this way. I will stay tuned to see the advice that is given!

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    1. I was just in a different place in my life when I started the blog, to now! So I think the blog needs to change and grow a bit as I do as well!

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  3. I think we all feel like this sometimes Hayley...I know I do! But when it comes down to it, blogging really is an outlet from the pressures of real life, and I want to keep it that way. I guess it's better to keep it all in perspective :) And definitely change things up if you need to! I love that you're going to start working with sponsors in a different way. A relationship like that is always better!

    xoxo,
    Joelle

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    1. I cannot wait to talk more about my ideas for the Sponsor ads! I am really excited to partner up with great blogs and shops!

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  4. I agree that we all feel this way from time to time. People say blogging is supposed to be fun, and most days it is, but there are days where I just don't feel like making an effort. Most of the time I try to struggle through, but other days I just need a little break!
    I think you have great ideas for making this space what you want it to be! I always enjoy reading :)

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    1. Thanks Shea! I guess for me I don't want to have to "struggle through it" for the sake of putting a blog post up! I want it to be more natural and fun! And I have to say since I wrote this, the ideas have been flowing!

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  5. I have felt this way on a smaller level and sometimes it does feel work, i just recently started following and i've loved what i've seen so far :)

    Chioma
    C’s Evolution of Style

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  6. It's funny how life kind of evolves & our blogs just have to evolve with it. I've found myself thinking some similar things. Honestly, I'm not looking for daily posts (hell, I don't even have time to check/comment/pin/keep up with my google reader daily). For me it's quality, not quantity. Quality shows so much more when you're doing it when you want to. Looking forward to the changes you'll make that work for you! I'll continue along!

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    1. OMG. You are so right! Quality not Quantity. It is hard but I need to remind myself of that!!

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  7. Girlll I hear you, I definitely hear you.
    I was/kinda still am going through the same thing. I guess you could call it blogger burnout. Sometimes you just need to reevaluate how you run things, and think about blog related things.
    Personally, I felt like I was putting my blog before more important things and that had to change. Blogging is not my job, it's my hobby and I need to make sure I do it because I love it. =) Now I make sure to blog because I want to, because blogging makes me happy.

    I really love your blog, and I also really like your more personal posts. =) I look forward to reading more.

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  8. PS I am also looking for a blog redesign to change things up. I guess we decide to reevaluate and make changes at the same time eh? =P

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    1. I think its like a 6 month itch! Haha!! But yea, I totally feel you! I want to be able to write about what is on my mind from time to time, it feels very freeing!

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  9. As someone who has owned MANY domains and recently shut down a blog only to come back 10 days later - I can tell you the trick is to just let it be what it is. You are under no obligation to post or be anything unless you want to. So, you need a day off? TAKE ONE. TAKE TEN. You can do that. Your writing and creativity is better for it. Looking forward to the new layout.

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    1. It is so much easier said then done though! I don't think I have gone longer then like 3 days without posting... so crazy!! But good advice!

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  10. go for a run and the creative ideas will start flowing.
    take some time off too!

    xo the egg out west.

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    1. Yup! Already when I decided to change up my content the ideas keep coming! And coming!

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  11. That is a tough spot, I went through something similar a few weeks ago and I still get it here and there. I think the most important thing to remember is why you blog. If you remember why you blog and stay true to that, you will always enjoy it. Don't let your blog enslave you :)

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    1. Thanks Daisy! That is good advice, always remember why!

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  12. It's a blog! Dont' over think it. I know I get crazy busy and overwhelmed and you know what, I feel a little ashamed but I'm not afraid to just take an unannounced hiatus. While I'm sure plenty of people will miss you, you cute dog and adorable fashion sense, we know you still exist and happy in knowing that you are enjoying your life and not tied down to a computer!

    Blogs are supposed to be reliefs, not stresses :)

    (btw, this is me saying, breaks are cool! But I'd never endorse a full-on quit. That just makes me sad.)

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    1. Aww thanks Jamie! I just took an unintentional break this week because of crazy stuff around here (illness and lots of work) but I hate it! I still cant break the through that I am letting people down! Sucks!!

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Thanks for taking time out to leave a comment! I love and read every single one! XO! -Hayley